![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20230907-083554_facebook5408883235658219578.jpg?w=720)
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20230907-084556_facebook1877389756153661380.jpg?w=720)
I came across the Following-Video, about how someone admittedly bragged about sexually-grooming someone else:
https://fb.watch/lu9iBOpZno/?mibextid=Nif5oz
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20230630-014333_facebook5567526833736200387.jpg?w=720)
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20230605-174025_instagram.jpg?w=720)
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/img_20230508_232231.jpg?w=768)
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20230419-124548_chrome.jpg?w=507)
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20230115-160432_instagram4653614215367389275.jpg?w=720)
Realities of Suicide: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0fbn0VabqW3oWwFgDqH5Ck
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20240329-100816_facebook3324525242409291408.jpg?w=720)
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20230121-175720_instagram7968827313263631448.jpg?w=720)
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20221210-131619_whatsapp335034585251290873.jpg?w=672)
The Following-Video is literally Classic/Textbook-Tactics which Sexual-Abusers/Sexual-Predators do to Children. Everything which is detailed via This Video are Universal-Sifāt/Characteristics of the Mughtasib/Sexual-Abuser whom targets Children: Sexual-Predators whom target Children universally target as well Single-Women with Children & whose Children don’t have Positive/Healthy-Relationships with their Fathers. Sadly, the Assessment of This-Woman concluding that their Mother purposely setting-up their own Child is actually a lot more commonplace than Most-People think/feel. And, ironically, 98% of Persons whom I’ve counseled as per al-Ightisāb/Sexual-Abuse are those whom had Negative/Toxic-Relationships with their Fathers. There’s actually Certain-Women whom’re directly-complicit, via the Ightisāb of their Children, resulting from al-Ghall/Resentment against the Fathers of their Children. Anyone/everyone whom cares for Children must/should watch This-Film & learn from this.
https://fb.watch/kp7VJuGFNc/?mibextid=Nif5oz
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20230131-132259_instagram643375672579605684.jpg?w=720)
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20220907-145243_facebook6346856272029311435.jpg?w=720)
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20220915-143759_facebook7395234889463630042.jpg?w=720)
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/fb_img_16934176708247118513738373207033.jpg?w=720)
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20230830-134726_facebook2328258687693707008.jpg?w=720)
al-Ightisāb/Sexual-Abuse is a Serious Societal-Issue. It’s plagued Humanity for Ages. However, the Dimension of al-Waswās/Grooming is definitely the most Sinister-Manifestation of al-Ightisāb. Grooming occurs in Many-Ways, via Many-Spaces: Workplace-Settings, in Religious-Settings, School-Settings, Jail/Prison-Settings, etc. There’s many Blatant-Indicators that Grooming takes Places. They can either be subtle or direct…covert or overt. They all are used via Groomers to acquire the Same-Results: to place their Targets in Compromising-Circumstances, where they either can’t resist/fight-back these Sexual-Predators, or where they feel guilty because they allowed themselves to foolishly fall for the Traps set by Sexual-Predators.
Here’s Several-Examples of what Grooming looks like via Various-Settings:
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20220915-141752_facebook8805509451518717551.jpg?w=720)
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20220915-144228_facebook9111756081855046109.jpg?w=720)
It’s a Known-Fact, that the Vast-Majority of Sexual-Predators/Abusers are Porn-Addicts. There’s very Strong-Correlation between Sexual-Predatism & Porn-Addiction.
In the Modern-World, one of the Easiest-Ways to groom anyone is via Social-Media. That’s simply because so many Persons are Consumers of Social-Media and/or are addicted to Social-Media. This really goes for any Addiction for That-Matter. One Universal-Characteristic/Quality is which is Universal amongst Sexual-Predators/Groomers is that they almost exclusively target the Same-Kinds/Types of People:
1. Persons whom have 0-Relationships or Negative-Relationships with their Bio-Fathers and/or 0 Positive Male Role-Models.
2. Persons whom hail from Broken-Homes (very similar to Point-A).
3. Persons whom have Low Self-Esteem.
4. Persons whom’re easily impressed, easily intimidated, easily influenced/manipulated, etc.
5. Persons yearning for Comradery, Belonging, Fraternity, Family, etc. (very similar to both Point-A & Point-B).
6. Persons whom’re Loners: those known to not have Lots of Friends, Loved-Ones, etc. if any…those whom’re known to be Introverted and/or Anti-Social, Self-Insular, Self-Isolated, Self-Alienated, etc.
7. Those whom’re suffering with by Developmental-Challenges, Physical-Abnormalities, Severe-Illnesses, etc. & those whom’re generally Anotomically-Weaker (Children, the Elderly, etc.).
The Typical-Mindset of a Sexual-Groomer is universal amongst Sexual-Predators, although they manifest Dimensions of Grooming differently depending exclusively upon their Target-Demographics:
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20220915-202846_whatsapp4142568500756573570.jpg?w=589)
In All-Truthfulness/Honesty…watching Videos such as these, albeit necessary as per my Profession as a Chaplain (to be understand Human-Behavior) definitively pains&&disgusts me. These-Types/Kinds of Persons anger me greatly as a Human whom always attempts to be a Moral/Principled-Person. Also, I’ve literally worked on Sex-Crime Cases via my Prison-Chaplaincy Experience. These-Types/Kinds of Cases are the Most-Difficult Cases which I’ve ever dealt with…Hands-Down. To actually have to sit with my Clients who’ve committed Sex-Crimes, of Various-Degrees, and for them to admit/detail their Crimes: it’s honestly nearly unbearable. It truly requires much Maturity, Forbearance, Tolerance, Patience, etc. to even be in the Same-Room as Persons like them. It’s in no Way any “Easy-Task”. However, someone’s gotta do it & Allah (via Their Wisdom) has decided that I’m amongst those whom’re called to commit to This-Work.
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20220914-113509_instagram5629010849792412507.jpg?w=720)
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11202311/Texas-teacher-Amber-Parker-fired-told-students-call-pedophiles-minor-attracted-persons.html
Keep in Mind: this is only referring to 1-City. So, just imagine the Rest of the United States.
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20221130-133258_facebook2910287926245217370.jpg?w=720)
![](https://garethbryant.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/screenshot_20230420-165815_instagram.jpg?w=720)
https://news.yahoo.com/un-backed-legal-recommendations-normalize-
https://freebeacon.com/latest-news/un-says-minors-can-consent-to-sex/amp/
Moreover, there absolutely must be More-Resources provided to Communities to combat Sexual-Grooming. There needs to be Religio-Spiritual & Psycho-Emotional Resources, Law-Enforcement Resources, Self-Defence Resources, etc.: all of These-Resources are of Equal-Importance. One such Resource, which I constantly/consistently do Work with is an Entity known as Buddy Speaks. They do Excellent-Work, regarding Lectures, Presentations, Seminars, Workshops, Trainings, etc. This-Organization focuses exclusively upon Sexual-Abuse Awareness, Sexual-Abuse Prevention, Sexual-Abuse Survival, Victim/Survivor Support, Family-Support for Loved-Ones of Victims/Survivors of Sexual-Abuse, etc. You name it…they do it. We’re all equally responsible, in front of Allah, to protect ourselves as well as each other from al-Ightisāb.
For More-Info. regarding Sex-Crimes:
http://www.garethbryant.wordpress.com/2020/11/19/sexcrimes/
For More-Info. regarding Buddy Speaks:
Gareth Bryant
Pingback: The Evil of Sexploitation | Gareth Bryant